I have taken more than my fair share of attacks due to my choice of character ages in my books. The one that seems to get the most attention is when "Alba" is taken as a "Consort" at age thirteen. I'll admit that I was concerned when I added that into my book because of the taboo nature of someone that young being sexually active. I researched the time period extensively before I made my decision. I might have never even responded but the attacks became personal and directed toward the author and not just the material.
Here are some things that I found concerning young girls in the medieval times.
In medieval Europe, Gratian, the influential founder of Canon law in the twelfth century, accepted the traditional age of puberty for marriage (between 12 and 14) but he also said consent was "meaningful" if the children were older than seven. Some authorities said consent could take place earlier. It was this policy which was carried over into English common law. Similarly Gratian's ideas about age became part of European civil law.
Though Shakespeare set his Romeo and Juliet in Verona, the fact that Juliet was 13 probably reflects the reality in England. Her mother, who was 26 calls her almost an old maid.
The age of consent in one of the American States was just 7 years, just 120 years ago!
Since it seems as though a lot of the outrage comes from people that consider themselves good christian folks I thought that I'd mention this little tidbit. It does come from a bit earlier in history but would still be relevant to the point:
One very remarkable thing about Mary is that she would almost certainly have been 12-14 years old when the angel Gabriel appeared to her. We know this because the common custom at that time was for girls to marry early, at that age. The Bible never gives Mary’s age when she got pregnant or gave birth to Jesus, and that is because when something happened that was common in the culture, nothing was said about it.
I just had to get that off my chest since I don't respond well to negativity. It makes me dislike people and I'm usually a friendly guy!